Thanks sandy, that settles my doubts.. ;-)
It makes perfect sense mind you, with the daughter board models, iirc the remarrying was required only when changing the BD controller, not the rest of the drive, which means that the only reason for remarrying a drive is basically a fried daughter board otherwise everything can be replaced without having to go through that procedure.
Yes, the problems always happens because the PS3 firmware is not able to communicate with the BD controller chip... is either because the BD daughterboard, the ribbon cable or the connectors are damaged
This is important to be mentioned because in the PS3 models before CECH-25xx you can take the daughterboard out of the Blu-ray drive, isolate it electrically (inside a plastic envelope or covered with tape), and stick it to the main motherboard and after that you can remove the blu-ray drive (because the only component that does some "logic" is that chip, lets say... the PS3 firmware detects the presence of the blu-ray drive based on the presence of that chip)
In CECH-25xx the amount of components in the BD daughterboard was so small that they decided to move it to the main motherboard (so is always married), in this PS3 models you can remove the blu-ray drive and the ribbon cables entirelly and the PS3 firmware will work fine... actually you can even rip appart the connectors, are not considered critical components anymore
For curiosity sake, the best example to see how they did this change in the PS3 design is by looking at
https://www.psdevwiki.com/ps3/CXD5131R-1
In CECH-21xx it was located in the daughterboard
https://www.psdevwiki.com/ps3/BMD-065
In CECH-25xx is soldered in the main motherboard, veeery close to the connector for the BD ribbon cable... but is the same exact component, so in theory we could "swap" them in between CECH-21xx CECH-25xx
And all 25xx revisions are like that, no matter the controller type, it's always integrated, correct?
Yes, CECH-25xx and all the next PS3 models (the last Slim CECH-30xx, and all the SuperSlims) have the BD controller chip integrated in the main motherboard, so there is no need to worry about marrying them anymore
For me this is an improvement, but i know there is people like @littleballup that was a bit afraid about this (as well as i was when i bought my CECH-25xx) because the obvious payback for having the BD controller chip integrated in the main motherboard is... if at some point the laser pickup or other circuit inside the BD drive have a critical problem (shorcuts), the damage could be "propagated" back to the BD controller chip soldered in the main motherboard
And that makes a big difference, you know... in older PS3 models this kind of damage only could affect the BD drive (easy to replace it because is just a separated part), but since CECH-25xx this would represent a critical chip fried in the main motherboard, and thats a serious repair
But in favour of sony i have to say after all this years reading reports of PS3 failures i never saw this kind of problem to happen. Also... in the PSP happens something similar, there is a laser controller soldered in the main motherboard and i saw many people reporting burned lasers, but never that chip
The real reason why me (and i guess litteballup too) was worryed about this design detail is because the PS2 really had a problem with this, it have a laser controller soldered in the main motherboard and the laser was burning it
So long story short... i guess there was many people aware of this mistake in the PS2 design... but it seems they fixed it definitivelly since PSP
Btw could you in theory put a BD450 for 21xx or 20xx in a 25xx, remove the daughter board and connect it?
No because that way you would have 2 BD controllers connected in cascade

Im not sure... but i guess the connectors of the ribbon cables doesnt allows to do it anyway... when they does this kind of important design changes they uses to change the connectors to make them incompatibles with the previous revision
But as far i know all the other parts inside the BD drive of the CECH-20xx up to CECH-25xx are compatibles, cables, the laser pickup, maybe gears/mechanics and probably some of the other tiny circuit boards inside too (there is one for the main disc motor, other for the laser motor, another for positional sensors, etc...)